You will probably see a lot more demonstrations of irrational and downright awful behavior from her. Some WW's apologize and some make excuses, and thinks he should be able to forgive easily and make no big deal out of it. Others point blame at the H, whether he had anything to do with the problem, or not. He usually gets the blame for whatever goes wrong in her life, and if she doesn't blame him she will take out her anger on him or the kids. Nobody else is going to put up with it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
