MCS, thank you for always responding right when I feel like I'm about to jump off a cliff. You have a very...calming way of posting...hard to describe, very good at validating =)
TLEE,
No problem. That's why we are all here. I think you are like me, in that, I get most out of sorts when I start to think me, my W, my sitch, etc. are unique and I can't figure out what to do (or not do) next. On the boards here, since everyone is going through the same thing, I find that its comforting.
Also, I work with about 50% ex-military. I know that if you've been through Ranger school, you can handle a boatload of stress. Just think of it the way you were trained. I would guess 90% of what the instructors did made no logical sense when you were going through it, but when you look back you can put the pieces together of how (mostly, anyway) each piece had a purpose to get you to the end. Using that analogy, that's where faith comes in. I have no clue 'why' each incident is the way it is in our sitches, but I know that I'll look back and it will hopefully mostly make sense.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
