My Wife Wants to Work on Things - Any Advice?

[Sherman333]

I'm in complete agreement. She did try for a lot of years but she can't keep up the facade anymore.

She does desparatly want to cake-eat and date at the same time. She's even exprcting me to pay her a monthly stipend for her half of nothing. Only thing we have is a little equity in the house that is completely overshadowed by the debt (year 1 of the 4 way plan to pay it off). She's even left me in control of her paycheck but still wants to spend a lot of $ on clothes every week.

I started separating finances on Sat and I'll be talking with the lawyer tomorrow about filing. I'm also going to have our Foster son moved to another hiuse. I need a few days to prep the departure before she's served. I'm canceling Disney the same day. There's no way in hell I'm going to Disney with her. She still intends to start dating this coming weekend too.

When she's served I expect open war. I'm fighting for my son at this point and keep everything else.