Complex No. 6 - The turtle and the rabbit

[25yearsmlc]

Had more chat with her mom today. It sounds like W is pretty much turning against her family. A lot of people tried to approach her. She wouldn't talk to anyone. Her brother leaked to our mutual friends too. Everyone disagrees.
Dangerous situation probably. But right now I give a damn!
I'm extremely mad again. And honestly, if she does what she said, moves forward and quick D me..so be it. I won't help her, I'll take what I'm entitled to. She will lose everything. And ok, I'll be bitter about this for the rest of my life but eventually I'll forgive myself and her and find my happiness elsewhere, with someone who deserves it.
"It was all a big mistake" she said...I should find a girlfriend or marry someone else....

You need to see how back & forth you go here (Below).

I say this NOT B/c I was fully consistent in my journey from day one, but b/c you must see how You appear in HER EYES...

Watch your inconsistencies and flip flops.



I have to sleep over my bad emotions and anger, maybe I'll feel better tomorrow. But

after today I think I've reached another point after which I can move on better. I took enough sh*t from her.

So you are saying you "Can move on better"...


It's time I stand very tall for what I personally stand for!!! I'm sick of the games she's playing. I'll control this from this day on in my terms!

After saying you won't try to control her, and that you "Can move on", you now say you will "Stand...for what you personally stand for"....(??) and

you will "control this from this say on..." ( ??) Confusing.

I'm excited to read this angry text again tomorrow and see where I stand.

"Because I have no control over how I feel"?? I will "see where I stand"....

(To me, Complex, this sounds like someone who moves and changes, the way leaves move when the wind blows. Does it sound very directed to you?).

But one thing is for sure: I'll be standing!!!!

Complex, here are some phrases You used about your path.


"Maybe I'll feel better tomorrow",

"I can move on",

I will be "standing tall, tomorrow I will "see where I stand", etc.

Ponder ^^ those a minute, okay?

Complex, you probably think I'm picking on you. Really I want you to see how you present yourself - so you can see the reason your wife sees you as Not very different yet.

You want her to see a Strong, directed adult Man, committed to his work and his relationships, correct?

How do you think you can do more that would support ^^ these images?