Alpha and WAW - part 2

[alpha99]

You're right twinmom...I need to pull myself together...quickly.


Things I need to work on:

Be more patient
Less derogatory
Less sarcastic in general
Get a full time job that pays well
Not being nasty if arguments occur
Be more confident (not just appear so)
Be independent
Make new friends
Find new hobbies


Complaints wife would have of me:

She's the breadwinner/I haven't worked enough the last few years.
I make a joke of almost everything
I'm incredibly sarcastic
I put her down when we argue/have showed a lack of respect towards her.
Name calling in arguments
Haven't showed her enough affection recently
Controlling and argumentative/brash on occasion

There's probably others but that's off the top of my head.

My good qualities:

I can be kind and considerate.
I'm an excellent father.
I can be a good listener.
I'm eager to help in times of crisis.
I iron w's clothes for work/prepare her food/ wait for her.to come home and ave bath run/food/tea ready.
Drive her to work/pick her up when we have car.
Ensured financial stability allowing for mortgage overpayments and numerous holidays (she sees this as controlling...I agree to an extent)

Again, off the top of my head.