Well, had a very nice day with my lovely Mum. Took a big pile of laundry and got that done whilst I was there. Bought Mum some chocolates and a movie and we watched that this afternoon. All very gentle and nice.

Back at the flat now and just poured a little glass of wine. Edz, you'll be glad to know I have nice clean sheets tonight!

All quiet on the H front today. I'm trying to just relax about it and think - hey, we were on the brink of D a few days ago. And that may still happen and that's okay. I'd be pleasantly surprised if H comes back with something positive. As Starsky said - there is still fog there, and I really do need to proceed with caution.

I like Starsky's idea of 'pausing' any legal stuff for 3 months and 'seeing/dating' each other for that time period. Just to see where that goes. But I really have minimal expectations and best to stay that way I think....

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus