I'm sorry to hear about your W's reaction. It does worry me that she has fallen quickly back into the M, but doesn't really seem to be willing to provide you with what you need at this point. She doesn't sound truly remorseful IMHO.
Only you can decide what you can live with. But you may want to consider saying to your W. You are free to make your own choices here. But I am telling you that this is a deal breaker for me. I will not recommit to you, without some specific action from you to draw a clear line under things with OM. It's up to you what you do, but I am telling you that 'we' can't move forwards together without that.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
