Thank you Joe, It will be good to have some insight from someone who has gone through this. The thing about my D is she is such a great kid. She gets straight "A's", has always gotten along well with other kids, has many interests and really cares about others. This change all started with her mothers MLC. Because of that she lost her older sister (she moved at age 19 to live with her boyfriend rather than live with her mother half the time. She is more angry at her mom than I am.), was moved 30 miles away half the time, away from her friends, was put in public school for the first time in her life where just her class has more students than her entire school had in grades K-8 and where she didn't know anyone, has had to put up with her mothers behavior which is so confusing to her and worse of all has lost the sense of security that comes with having an intact family.
From my talk with W, she doesn't think that any of that has anything to do with why D15 is suffering so much she is cutting herself. No, just like every MLCer she doesn't see how much hurt and pain her selfish actions have caused and are still causing now. It's alway something or someone else's fault just like her own unhappiness is my fault alone. I hope we get an IC that understands MLC and doesn't just pretend it doesn't exist like so many do.
I will be picking D15 up later today and will be talking to her. Thank you for your offer of help. This forum has helped me in so many ways, maybe it can help in this case as well!
