Originally Posted By: sandi2
Guess I am still in the dinosaur age, but I don't think these types of conversations need to take place through texting.


The nice thing about doing it over text is then there is proof of what is said. So if there is an issue, you can go back and read what the person wrote.

Originally Posted By: sandi2
What could you have done differently when she called you cursing and using all kinds of vulgar name-calling?

I would say "Do not talk to me like this or I will hang up".

[quote=sandi2]When you told her you would no longer tolerate her talking to you in that manner (which is certainly a needed boundary), what did you have in mind to use as a consequence if she does not honor it?


I will disconnect the phone call on her. Which has happened in the past, which sends her into a tizzy. She hates being hung up on.

Originally Posted By: sandi2
You cannot reason with a WW, and if she's so angry she is throwing that kind of fit.......it is a waste of breath to go into any explanation with her.


That right there is golden, Sandi. It's like playing monopoly in a dark room with a bunch of monkeys. It just doesn't work.


Me: 38
W: 32
S10 D6
T: 10 (02/2004)
M: 7 (12/2007)
Separation 02/2015
OM confirmed 01/2015,
D mentioned 12/2014
D finalized 9/2016