Originally Posted By: Zelda09
I get more reassurance he is here to stay and we are doing our best. Having people over today. I'm just so weary of the roller coaster. Is this normal during piecing?


In my experience, this was very normal. We started piecing at the end of July/beginning of August. It felt very precarious until mid October. H said a handful of times during those months that we wouldn't be able to get through because it was too hard. It was infuriating. Eventually things started clicking better and he stopped making those comments. It just takes a lot of patience and time.

It's great that you are seeing improvements in your communication. Keep your focus on the positive changes as much as you can. You've got this, Z!


Me: 30
H: 35
M: 5 years
S2
Signs of MLC started Feb 2014
BD - PA July 2014
Piecing/reconciling late July 2014