[susana4]

Thanks Starsky and Complex.

I am going to let him know this is not acceptable. I have been lucky, my H has been very respectful and even kind to me throughout my sitch. But now he has finally crossed a line. I won't be treated rudely or disrespected.

I actually don't think it will spook him, if I can communicate it lovingly and respectfully, and in a non-angry way.

But it doesn't matter if it does, because I won't stand by while someone is rude and disrespectful to me.