He apologized yesterday for the threats about leaving me, just said it was not the kind of person he wanted to be. We are both still trying to process anger and resentment.

I get more reassurance he is here to stay and we are doing our best. Having people over today. I'm just so weary of the roller coaster. Is this normal during piecing?

I am encouraged that on the whole, we are having better communication.

All I want is stability. And for him to get out of the house and start doing the things that will bring him happiness, but I can't do much about that one.


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.