Sadpand, if you will write out the boundary in one statement for us, maybe we can go from there. Otherwise, what you were doing was having a long talk about your feelings.
Maybe I missed it, but I think she did too. Exactly what it is she is suppose to stop doing, and what will be your action response (consequences) if she doesn't honor that particular boundary?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
