Don't worry Barb, that's on my list of things to obsess about lol. Yesterday really wasn't a date. Agnes, her friend and I had planned to go to the baby shower together and when AM slept over she came too. We all hung out for the afternoon too. AM and I have a nice, fun rapport and we were taking photos and laughing together. She was showing me photos of her family (she is the second youngest of nine!) So, I'm not looking to push into some heavy thing right now...she's got her employment sitch to take care of first. I think she's quite OK with going slowly too...if she's into it at all. I've really been so moved by the way our church friends have been there for her right now. She's only been at our church for 2 months now. Agnes took her in no problem so she didn't have to spend the weekend at her wicked employers. AM doesn't have a guitar and she loves playing guitar so Rita, Gladys best friend, offered to give her the one she had...she then offered to have her over for a weekend. I now understand what AM was saying when she said meeting another Adventist somewhere always makes her feel warm all over. We really do take care of each other!
