Happy Mother's Day! I'm glad he recognized the day and everything is going well. I wouldn't waste any time questioning whether the attention is from guilt or not...just accept that today he's there and doing something nice for you. Tomorrow may be different, but that's tomorrow. Live for today and enjoy the time w/your family.
MLCers' coping skills aren't good at all and that's why they have issues and a crisis. Sounds like your h's aren't very good right now. The crisis can bring out the "extreme" w/coping skills, and other disorders that may have been lying low pre-crisis.
Enjoy your day!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.