hold on! - 8

[u-turn]

So now I don't know what to do:
-Scrap it all - step back to separation mode.
-Speak openly about what I really want and need in a marriage.
-Wait for action or watch more inaction from her.
-Reiterate what I said yesterday - demand this. (she has only focused on the letter, not about the message, not about the transparency).
-negotiate the letter part (if this is a deal breaker for her) - the message is important, but not as trustworthy
-Explain why I think this is necessary for her (PEAs, addiction...)