I am thinking I won't tell her for now. The filter is not going to clog and the system fail right away. At least I can stay on task for a while and see what happens.
W came and dropped D14 off about a half hour ago. She came in and was very pleasant. A lady we new just passed away so I showed her the obituary and we talked about that for a few minutes. I had my coupons on the counter and she saw one for a restaurant that we never tried but always wanted to go to. She asked if I wanted to go sometime. I said that I will have to see her Tuesday night to get D14's clothes before we go away for the rest of the week. We can go that night since she will be missing a few of her nights with D14. She said that sounds good. I know that may not be detaching but at the same time it gives us a rare opportunity to go out as a family. I will then be gone for the rest of the week so if the normal have a good time followed by a bad day, I won't see her for a few days, to get the bad day.
Me: 36 W: 36 D: 14 T: 18 (05/1997) M: 16 (05/1999) BD: 7/23/15 Separation 01/2015 D mentioned and started 02/2015 D filed 3/2015 OM confirmed 3/30/15