[susana4]

Let go of the anger. Shake it off now. Why let it ruin the rest of your day?

Let H worry about rude and inconsiderate. His actions, his loss.

Why are you expecting more from him? Why do you let it bother you when he doesn't make the grade? And that he didn't say "sorry". How long will you give him the power to make you angry?

The man has limitations right now. He may or may not change. Accept that for what it is. The sky is blue. You can be angry about that, or indifferent to it.

Don't go out and stay out for spite. Go out because there is somewhere you want to be, and something there you want to do.

Hi Zew, sorry I didn't see your post when I wrote my last one! I am going to go out and enjoy my day I have got over my initial burst of anger.

I guess I just expect him to be considerate and not rude, because he has been polite throughout our whole sitch, not rude. And he seems to have been drawing closer lately but now i feel like this is a setback. But maybe I am letting expectations get in the way.

I also know I'm not in a position to ask or expect anything of him, but I also feel like if I "let" him be rude to me, aren't I sending the message that his behaviour is acceptable?