What could I do that would shock W into thinking my life is going on without her?
Clear the house of all my possessions in preparation for house decoration and sale.
GAL activities, poker, cinema, golf, gym, time with friends, kids.
Go on holiday on my own.
Dress smartly, be pleased with myself and positive.
STOP, stop doing things with the purpose of getting a reaction from your wife. Make changes that are lifelong, good for YOU changes. Not "get a reaction" changes.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction