Thanks Toots,

Just to be clear, W has moved out with kids. I am barely at home myself, mainly at parents. W says she won't pay any household bills despite co-owning the place, hence my decision to turn gas off as she wants to sell anyway. W won't let kids stay with me at mo anyway.

I spent 99% of time there focused on my son. W initiated all conversation. I will take my daughter to school but finances are tough at the mo. W is receiving tax credits etc for kids but seems to spend it on clothes, nights out, make up etc. I only have my wage and spending a lot on petrol recently.

Already I'm seeing that it would be possible for me to live my life alone,.or in.time with someone else. I don't want that of course, but I am beginning to feel like if it came to it then it's something I could live with. I left hospital cos my S asked.me to.go. nothing to do with conversations with W etc, more that he's being spoilt rotten at the moment and her brainwashing is turning kids against me. His eyes lit up when I mentioned playing football in the park or going bowling when he's better. Like I say, he's being spoilt rotten, I can see their schoolwork falling behind as wife doesn't focus on them, their diets suffering as they gorge on chocolate and crisps. In other words, everything I always strived to avoid is happening in spades now, and I'm powerless to stop it at the moment. It's sickening.


BD - 30TH JAN 2015
S - 30TH JAN 2015
PA CONFIRMED - 16TH FEB 2015 (SINCE AT LEAST OCT 2014)
CONTINUAL TALK OF D
ME: 31
W: 28
T: 10yrs
M: 4.5yrs
D:5, S:6