Well, I need more than this, clearly. I need more QT together. I don't think he ever really "got" that.

I replied to his text last night (which said he wasn't sure if he'd watch the F1 with his dad but he did still want nachos for dinner):
Ok cool, maybe we could watch the nascar then if you do. I was actually kind of looking forward to it! The Nascar’s on at 7:30. smile We saw the movie x+y, it was really good up until the ending which they ruined by making it a bit naff. Did you have a nice time in Brighton? Were there churros? 😉

^^When I say I was looking forward to it, I meant the racing. He is into racing, I'm not, and one of the things we discussed post BD was that he never watched racing since he was with me, because somehow he thought it would annoy me. But I would have actually loved to share something he loved with him, and so I was looking forward to watching it together tonight.

He just texted me this:
Haha! You were looking forward to it! smile now I am actually back I feel I should hang around with parents for Mother's Day. Pain in the arse really. I think I will have dinner at my mums before I come up. Glad the film was pretty good. I did not have churros frown

Do I reply? Don't feel like I need to, there's no question. But I don't know if I'm just not replying out of anger.

It makes sense he feels he should be there for Mother's Day. But I am upset he's bailing on our plans for later. I also offered him on Friday to make him dinner for his birthday next week, and asked him what day he wanted it. He was excited and really wanted it, but he still hasn't told me when. Friday he just said yes and he'd tell me a day, Saturday I asked and he said he was too tired/hungover to remember his schedule and he'd let me know.

I just feel like he is disrespectful of my time. This is bringing up a lot of issues from our M - I always felt like he resented putting me first. And I've always felt like he was disrespectful of my time/my plans. We had a lot of arguments around him going to his parents for the weekend - he told me after BD he felt like I didn't want him to spend time with his family. That is not true, but it's just typical that he will change around his plans with them and disregard plans with me.

I don't know if I'm being oversensitive. My friends have told me they wouldn't care. I guess it just makes me feel disrespected for some reason, and I need to work out why, and if that's something I can change, or if it's something I can't take from him/in our M.

Last edited by susana4; 03/15/15 01:34 PM.
Me 28 / H 28
M 1 / T 2.5
BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more"
Still living together, separate rooms.