Sandi,

I've been reading your thread, thank-you for sharing. I saw that the books from the womensinfidelity site helped you.

My W moved in with with her best friend last weekend. I'm practicing a lot of your tips and guidelines and not contacting her. When she stopped by yesterday to pick some things up she expressed a lot remorse. She has said she is sorry and acknowledged that she has a lot to work out. There has been no R talk.

Would it be appropriate to send her a link to the books? Let her know that these might help? Or should I continue to leave her alone to figure things out.


Me:43, WW:45
2 Kids: 21,22
Married: 23 Years
Bomb: 01/2015
Separate Bedrooms: 02/2015
She left: 03/2015