Complex, do you belong to a gym? I've found going there a lot recently has definitely helped.
Twinmom, I have been ignoring her calls. As I said, I answered at the third time of asking. Once I knew son was ill I had to answer when she called a little later. I can't tell whether she is just finding excuses to call me now or whether she just wants things sorted when it suits her. I think it is mainly the latter but since I have stepped back a lot I don't really know.
I texted her yesterday afternoon asking 'how is S6? Is he felling better?
She called back 30 minutes later and was pleasant as she explained what's up eith him. She said she'd call later on to give me an update but never did. She was meant to be at work last night but I wonder whether or not she went with son being ill. Previously we would never have dreamt.of going to work when kids were so ill. If she has left S6 in care of her parents then that would be disappointing.
I feel quite a bit better now. It's nearly 7am here now. I've been dripping in.sweat all night though.
Today is Mother's Day. I had bought cards from children for W. After reading through some of Sandi's old posts it seems the advice is to ignore all occasions. Therefore, having been ill and not really have been in touch much last few days, I don't plan on.contacting W at all today and WON'T be giving her Mother's Day cards. If she calls me, I'll keep conversation strictly to children.
What do you think of that?
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BD - 30TH JAN 2015 S - 30TH JAN 2015 PA CONFIRMED - 16TH FEB 2015 (SINCE AT LEAST OCT 2014) CONTINUAL TALK OF D ME: 31 W: 28 T: 10yrs M: 4.5yrs D:5, S:6