Hey MCS, sorry its been a while since Ive checked in- lots of stuff on my mind so I apologize for being selfish. Sounds like both of our sitch's kinda suck right now but I am glad you are getting stronger.
Quite honestly Im not sure if you telling W that she needs to get better was the best thing for you to say. It sounds...accusational? Idk if thats the right word, but something like oh I'm doing fine, YOU need to get better. Maybe something like "Hey W, Im concerned for you because you don't look healthy and I am worried about it." Is that too soft? Reason I say that is because my W as you know is also very unhealthy, losing 30+lbs, etc etc. So I usually just say hey I am worried about you, makes it sound more...caring?
Don't mind her threats. We both know that this is what they do. When they're cornered or feel scared, they threaten us. It'll pass.
Ill check back in soon, keep your head up.
BTW, good on your dad for telling D4 to look at photos on her own, there is no way I could have looked through that. Thinking about you bud.
ME: 28 W: 24 M: 2.5yrs T: 5yrs BD: 22 SEP 14 W Leaves: 5 OCT 14