Oh, forgot to say. At my parents house, W had made a 'family book' of us each XMas to give to all our parents. D4 decided to sit down with me and go through the last 5 years of pictures in the books. Toughest thing I've done in a while. We were having a good time, family trips, laughing, spending time together....we were a happy family....what happened? It's like there was a cancer growing and I didn't see it at all.
I got through about 3 books and my dad saw how much it was affecting me, but I was holding strong for D4. He just said to her, "D4, how about you finish looking through those yourself." Another future step in the journey, reconcile the memories back to being seen for the goodness and not the dark clouds that were looming that I didn't see at all.
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M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
