Man, it stinks reading through this thread. I go through the same thing of realizing how much I feel used, now and for the last year and a half. But we all know the selfishness that our spouses are oozing with right now. As my pastor told me, "MCS, going through this yourself with all of the pain must be exhausting, trying to do it and keep the door open must be Impossible"
That's what it is, we can get F&@@&$n lit up on what is going on. Easier said than done, but acting on how your feeling at the current moment is the same thing our spouses due everyday. Hang in there, bud.
Read Sandi's post, this is the story.....it's so similiar for us all. We are witnessing the epic fall of the fantasy and they are trying to do everything possible to bring us with. They're selfish....."I'm miserable, so should everyone else" let it happen, be unwavering, be a leader when the other is weak. You got this.
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M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
