Errod, I am not familiar with your situation, but I will read up on it. I am also not a vet. I can see you are struggling with DETACHING. I struggled alot at first. I can tell you it was the best thing I did for myself. I was texting her before about something just to see if she would respond. I also was very attached to our relationship. My wife and I were like best friends and husband and wife. It was quite an adjustment to deal with at first when she stopped communicating anything with me. We used to email each other all day.When she started being cold to me and shutting me out it was tough. Now I can go all day and not wonder if she is going to text or not. I don't sit around wondering what she is doing. You kinda have to fight the urge. Keep busy with anything. I listen to music with my headphones on and fold laundry, do the dishes or clean the house. (wife doesn't do much anymore and I just want to get it done). Watch new movies. Post on here. Anything to keep busy.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
