Fogg so your background is very similar to ours. Together since High School, married 1 year out. We got engaged one month after graduating High School and lived together already part of my senior year.
I do I need to stop showing my emotions. The only way I can do that is as hard as it is going to be is I am going to have to only talk to her when she initiates the call or text.
So if it looks like I am trying to control her still to the rest of the world I must be. That is the major thing she is trying to get away from me for. I need to stop that.
I have to stop trying to control the marriage and hope that we can reconnect. I have to admit I did a lot of damage and it is not going to be easy to get her trust back. Especially with that one friend in her ear all the time telling her to leave me. But there is nothing I can do about that, but hope when push comes to shove I am more important then then friend of a few months.
Me: 36 W: 36 D: 14 T: 18 (05/1997) M: 16 (05/1999) BD: 7/23/15 Separation 01/2015 D mentioned and started 02/2015 D filed 3/2015 OM confirmed 3/30/15