Though she says she is recommitting to our marriage, I don't think that means she is recommitted.
Though she asks what she can do to help me, she doesn't really mean she wants to know and is hoping I'll just say "nothing - I'm ok). She doesn't want to put forth any effort accept being nice to me. She asked me if I wanted to find a MC a week ago (which I told her that I would like to do that), but I have doubts that she really means that.
Though she says it is over with OM, there is still probably something there. As little as - I am done with him, but I am good friends with him, or as much as - a full cover-up.
She wants this to be easy for her, but without real effort, I don't know how to move forward.
She didn't seem to run to him about this. She didn't throw the "I was just going to do something nice for you, and now you've ruined it" (as Sandi pointed out in another post today). She has done this all too often.
She is ignoring this now, but I will bring it up again. She is looking for a compromise on this.
Me-45 W-44 S21, S18, D15 T-27, M-21 BD Jan 2014 PA revealed March 2014 In-house separation - April 2015 I filed - Aug 2015 She moved out Oct 2015
