That's exactly what it is, a totally different mindset. One that is irreversibly logic/reason-proof. For example, I have intel that OM is pushing her away a bit (perhaps it's the "forever" talk from a married woman with two kids). Does this show my WW "the light?" No, instead she blames me for creating her barriers to OM (e.g. blaming the kids).
I'm finding there is no simple answer to this - I have to let her go and follow her own path. The hardest part is gathering the strength to start that process by following my own path.
Yep, I'm in the same boat. W left family/me to try and get OM to commit. 6 months later, he's still with his GF and W is still in pursuit!?!? What is she thinking, now she's making stuff up (after telling me she had longed planned to leave for him) about how I'm the only reason she left. It's so hard not to expose the A to his GF, however pretty much everyone else has figured it out. It's only a matter of time, that will get blamed on me also.
I said to my IC, it's so crazy that she's pushing away the one that cares to try and win the one that doesn't give a hoot about her. Like everyone says.....no logic at all.
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M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
