[susana4]

Aaargh!! I know I probably sound like a spoiled brat here because there are some good things in the text below (he replied very quickly to my text and this is the first time in quite awhile we've had a friendly/chatty text where he's asking me stuff, our texts since BD have been mainly 'business' about the house, apart from him texting me to thank me for leftovers at lunch) but he's just replied and it's annoyed me:

H's reply: Okay, I'm not sure, my dad might want to watch it with me. But im not sure when I will get up. Still want the nachos though I'll let you know. Did you enjoy the film? What did you see?

The thing is, one constant argument we had in our M was that I would get annoyed because H could never tell me when he'd be home. Either he'd refuse to give a time, like he did just now, or he'd give a wildly inaccurate time. I would get angry because I couldn't plan dinner or my evening/weekend/whatever, and then he'd get angry I was angry! His rationale is that he might be having a good time and want to stay longer, or he might get bored and want to leave early. My rationale is that I find it very rude when you're doing something for someone or your plans involve someone (e.g. making them dinner) and they won't tell you what time they'll turn up.

Am I being unreasonable here? I really don't know how to deal with this. I mean, he's bailing on our plans to watch f1 which is a bit rude to begin with, but then i'm offering to make him dinner and asking him what time to have it ready for and he can't tell me that?! I just find that really rude!

I know I can't reply in an annoyed way though. Today is truly testing my changes and my 180s! I think I can reply in a lighthearted way but I need to figure out a way around his inability to tell me when he'll be home. And I need to figure out how not to get resentful of that.