Thank you V. I have realized this after reading through the posts again. I felt so good about how I handled everything with the boundary and also her freaking out the past couple days. To be honest, I am not so sure about our marriage right now. I am just hanging in for the kids at the moment. After reading through another one of Sandi's posts, it would take alot to reconcile my marriage right now. I am ver old fashioned about alot of things. Infidelity being a big one. I have no proof of her EA or the other person, if I did things would be alot different. I am concentrating on myself and I would actually like more information from cat04 on her thoughts of things I may have done that could be seen as emotional abuse. Since I am trying to work on myself through this, sometimes I need that 6 x 6!! In the past I would not do much with a boundary except talk and talk and try to get them to see my point. When my wife argued with me, I would get scared she was going to leave and do the big make up thing and cave on my boundary. Or I would just figure the divorce conversation was coming.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
