All DBers get challenged on their behaviours. Personally I find that refreshing and empowering. it helps me confirm the things that I do and helps me correct and adjust.
It is healthy and I welcome it.
Joe can say, I did this well and next time I can make this change. This boundary is enforced and that one can be adjusted.
For example Joes new correction is our house.
Joe can question and think about his strategy for his children. He can adjust how he responds.
Joe, these are BIG issues for you, and you are tackling these by thought and consideration. What is the best with D, may need adjusting for S and the younger children. I wished that I had tackled and understood my boundaries as you have.
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Last edited by Vanilla; 03/14/1509:35 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
