She hasn't changed. At all. Not one single bit.

So for the past few weeks, its been the same- we talk daily, no big developments since she changed her mind about coming home.

Today- Im so [censored] angry. She starts asking me about my paychecks and why there not as big as they used to be (I live on base now, so they take out the housing portion of my checks so its like $2K less every month). And I asked her why are you so curious about this..(and I know she's running out of money).

W: (paraphrase) "Because we had an agreement with $ and obviously I don't feel comfortable taking any out when I see your balance."
Me: "We agreed that when you told me you were living with your mom, and that I wouldn't give you any $ while you are living with this guy."
W: I know you said that but thats not what we agreed to, and its unrealistic.
Me: W, Ive been nothing but supportive of you for the past few months. Now, almost 6 months later you are still living with this guy. Why, only you know. But Ive paid for everything to support you and thats ok. You're plane ticket home, the dogs boarding, everything, Im paying for because I am trying to support you. You have all our savings. I don't have any more money. Im not transferring it anywhere else, you can see for yourself. I am sorry I don't have any more $

NO REPLY.

Is she [censored] DUMB? She STILL expects me to give her $? Oh BTW, she's quit 2 different jobs, GOT HER [censored] HAIR DONE YESTERDAY and is aimlessly driving around Nashville right now. OH BTW, she's still driving that brand new truck. [censored] THIS [censored].

Seriously, when you CHOOSE to LEAVE your H, LIFE IS NOT ALL [censored] ROSES. Life [censored] for me right now. I know she's hurting for $ ,and this guy is getting out of the Army next month. So i know $ is an issue. But honestly...I DONT EVEN HAVE MONEY TO GIVE HER EVEN IF I WANTED TO. The Army doesn't pay for you to live 2 separate lives from your W.

She's probably pissed off at me. And who really [censored] cares. She's being a [censored] unreasonable spoiled bitch.

Divorce me? FINE. If she wants to throw that out there, then I will say ok thats not what I want, but if thats what you choose to do so be it. She'll regret her choice later when she's just like her mom who now got evicted out of her house with her new bf. THIS IS NOT WHAT I WANT. But she's doing this to herself.

OH and BTW, its our anniversary in 4 days. HOO [censored] RAY

I WANT A DIVORCE

Last edited by TLEE86; 03/14/15 09:37 PM.
ME: 28
W: 24
M: 2.5yrs
T: 5yrs
BD: 22 SEP 14
W Leaves: 5 OCT 14