It has been about 6 months since I was here last. for the last 6 months my s and I gave just been living day to day. H stayed away a lot but when he was there he was hostile. About a month ago I was on the phone with my mom and h started yelling at me (who knows about what) and then started yelling at my mom. (She was freaked out) she head all my stories but just couldn't believe he was so different from the man she knew)
The next day my BIL said he was giving me money to get out. Found a small 2 bedroom and s and I are gone in a week.
Gave h 3 weeks notice. Even though for a year and a half he has been yelling at me to get our he now says I am a selfish b##ch for not giving him more notice.
He is moving in with OW.
Thought it was a good idea to come back here for support and advice as I negotiate the next leg of this journey.
Me 44 H 42 M 10 T 12 (at time of BD) Ss 20 16 S11 (special needs)
BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom 10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied S and I move out 3/15
