Yes, Mighty, you ARE the $hit!!! And you and your remodeling skills are gonna be a hot commodity on the dating scene once you're ready.
But I want to talk to you about something my dear. About letting go. And about the risk to your health by not letting go.
Read Vge1 s thread. Some similarities to your sitch....her h had a child by another woman, she reconciled with him, but now several years later he's bolted with another woman and Vge has stage 4 metastatic breast cancer. No way to know for sure, but the stress of all this has probably played a big role.
I broke out in shingles a couple of years ago when my ex was stressing me out over some financial issues with the kids....not a coincidence.
So what I'm saying is, the best thing that you can do for yourself right now is to quit focusing on the ex and start dreaming some fun new dreams for yourself.
