I'm not too sure what to advise to you really. I think we've been in the situation about the same length of time. Me and my H live under the same roof (he wants a D but wants to live together still?! Go figure) so I try to be upbeat when I speak with him- but detached at the same time. So I'm not too sure what to advise regarding the contacting thing. Generally I only make contact with him when it's regarding our baby


Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
ILY-1/16
ILYBNILWY 4/16
ILY 6/16
ILYBINILWY 6/16
Baby due 3/17
BD 8/16