I'm not too sure what to advise to you really. I think we've been in the situation about the same length of time. Me and my H live under the same roof (he wants a D but wants to live together still?! Go figure) so I try to be upbeat when I speak with him- but detached at the same time. So I'm not too sure what to advise regarding the contacting thing. Generally I only make contact with him when it's regarding our baby
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16