Need Help!!!

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Lets just say for a minute W is not having an A, because I still know if she is.

Growing up she was always a nerd did not have any friends never went out or anything..She was attractive her was a bookworm. We went to different schools so she made me happy even though she was a dork. None of my friends new an different.

Now all the sudden because of her job an income and the fact that neither of us have aged. When we go out everyone thinks we are 10 years younger then we are. So now she has a group of girls that follow her all around and tell her how great she is. So she is loving that. Because of the dynamics of the way are relationship were for the last 18 years she does not think she can have both me or them. Well they are her crack right now.

Do you treat this situation the same way you would an affair. Because even though there is no physical contact, she is getting her emotional fix.

I notice this huge pattern now when one lady from a group gets a divorce all the others women follow that persons lead.

I will never understand the women thought process and that is why I am struggling to do or say the right things. I am really scared right now because our contact is going to be minimal now. I don't know if that is a good thing because I won't have the chance to put my foot in my mouth and nature will take over. Or if it is a bad thing because it will be easy to forget me.

Plus the divorce is right around the corner so I don't feel I am be given the gift of time.