Thanks guys. I truly had no expectations in sending the email. I felt I had nothing more to lose and I felt at peace with what I wrote.

It seems it may have given H some pause for thought though - a more positive response than I would have ever expected. But again I really do need to have no expectations, given all the other comments about ongoing fogginess and so on...I need to expect that our D may be underway any time soon.

Thanks for your support....xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus