Sure, I can give you the link. I want you to understand something before you go searching into my archives. It is rare that a WW comes to the DB board. I was in crisis and I did not know where to start my thread. Like many H's I've seen who rather believe their WW is in MLC, I thought that was what was happening to me. However, I had some posters tell me I was too old to be in MLC! I was already embarrassed about my actions at this stage in life, but then I became very self-conscious about it. Anyway, that is why my thread started in the MLC forum.
What I actually started out to tell you, is you will not learn what my H did that saved our M. It is not there. So if that is what you are seeking, you can save yourself many hours of reading. However, if it helps you to have a better glimpse into the mindset of a WW, it is there..........the bad and the ugly.
