I don't know how to get it across to you. She is trying to give you all these reasons why she despises you, and to convince you that she would never go back to you........and you tell her you love her??? Obviously, you have no idea how big of a turn-off that is to a WW. She does not want you to love her, and she sure doesn't want to hear about it. Can you get that in your head?

If you had just left without saying ILY, it would have been fine. She is going to think and feel what she wants to think and feel. Your job is to have a nonchalant attitude about what she thought she saw and how awful her life was with you. But you do NOT tell a WW you love her after she says you make her sick and vomits in your face.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!