Hi Toots,

I think you've done the right thing. If you want your marriage to work then surely at some point there needs to be this kind of reaching out. DR may suggest you do this at a better point, but like it says, if you've followed DBing to a T and things aren't changing, don't engage in more of the same behaviour. At least your H knows how you feel now. I have my fingers crossed you get a positive reply.

Last edited by alpha99; 03/14/15 04:57 PM.

BD - 30TH JAN 2015
S - 30TH JAN 2015
PA CONFIRMED - 16TH FEB 2015 (SINCE AT LEAST OCT 2014)
CONTINUAL TALK OF D
ME: 31
W: 28
T: 10yrs
M: 4.5yrs
D:5, S:6