Bad bad bad day I woke up. W in the living room, annoyed sort of. And then she starts the conversation: we need to physically separate! She goes on with how she is 100% convinced she wants to move forward with the separation. Sounding very convinced. I basically gave her my boundary spiel...maybe I was a touch too pursuing but I made things clear. But of course her doors are 100% shut still. Feels like non of what I did worked at all. She told me she will even serve me papers if she has to. But we can make it friendly too. She is afraid that I'll make this D nasty and drag it out. I don't know what I should say to that. I also told her I beleve in we can have a wonderful R that I believe in it, but I'm moving on with or without her. Maybe that was pursuing Oh man this is frustrating. For her too...not good .....
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15
