lost18,

Thank you for responding. Yes, it has been rocky from Day 1 of our marriage.

I have made a list and it wasn't good. I had more cons than pros. I can remember why I fell in love with him but now I don't know why I love him. He has caused me so much hurt and pain in this marriage. Marriage isn't suppose to be this hard. Maybe I am just with the wrong person.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)