Need Help!!!

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A little background on why I am in an apartment and she is in the house. Before we started having issues we were looking for a place to get a house built this is back in February. Then in April we went on a cruise at the same time I was negotiating everything with the new house. I was completely stressed out and negative. My W works very hard and because of how miserable I made that week she started thinking things. Well then we came back from vacation and I was all in on this house, plus at that time being on the board for my D14's track boosters. Note I do nothing half effort. So I spent every minute on those two projects.

My W was crying out for attention from me and I was not seeing that. So then in July she dropped the bomb on me that she was done. This is the exact story she has told me, my D, my mom and everyone else. She took it that I was doing these things to avoid being around her and that I was neglecting her and not, the way that I saw it that I was making our dreams come true.

So then in January the new house was done so W went to it. I couldn't afford it and really didn't have a leg to stand on. Since at that point the old house did not sell yet I didn't fight her on it thinking I would be a few weeks behind. We were hanging out everyday but I made the mistake of every single time that I said good bye telling her how much I loved and missed her. W then put a huge wall up around her heart.

No one expected that the old house was going to sell in 5 days after that. So I then had to get an apartment and couldn't have dogs. That is why she has the dogs.