I'm thinking of hard core logistics like timing. I think it's time to start moving forward -- be prepared to move no later than May 1st and list the house at that time. The mortgage looks like I need to let time pass before I can qualify and a few other things need to be put in place with the settlement, so getting myself into a rental by May is probably the most comfortable course of action for now. It means I'll have to move twice but I don't think that's avoidable.
Fortunately the kids are taking all this as an adventure.
He's such a jerk. I wouldn't have needed to move at all till I wanted to if we'd just rented instead of buying when we moved here. Why didn't I insist? I rarely insisted on anything with him. My gut is smarter than I am. GAH.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
