I for one love the line Gan wrote and I think it reads well although I'm not a vet.

I think the goal of being happy with it in five years is a good one.

Good luck Toots, you are so strong and I know you will handle any outcome.

Me 28 / H 28
M 1 / T 2.5
BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more"
Still living together, separate rooms.