Dear H, I'm so sorry that you feel your life has run off course. I truly only wish happiness for us both. I understand that you want to simplify your life and don't want to work and live in different places.
Of course you are free to make your own choices. I respect your wishes and if you file for divorce, I won't stand in your way. But divorce isn't what I want. I love you and I hope that we may one day find our way back to each other.
Toots
I think this is an email I will be glad to have sent in 5 years time It is important to me that H knows how I truly feel at this point I hope it 'shows, not tells' what H would be losing - as Wonka said I also think it shows strength, SFTU and KISS
In the UK, you can only file for a 'fault-free D' after 2 years S. H will now have to decide whether he will file for D on the grounds of 'unreasonable behaviour.' I'm not trying to control the outcome, just trying to be true to myself that this isn't what I want.
I think I'm happy now. Are we happy with this guys?
Last edited by Toots; 03/14/1510:44 AM.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
