Yes, I'm afraid you're right. No... sadly, I know you're right. Tonight she has defiantly stayed overnight at OM's place, despite knowing that this is the one thing that I asked her not to do. I say "defiantly" because I woke up at 2am and sent her the message "Are you still at [OM's]?" and she replied the one-word "Yup!"

This is not something she normally says. "Yes," or "I am," perhaps, but not "Yup!" The only explanation is defiance.

I hadn't intended to press the issue. I had intended to just ignore her while I job-hunted, but her behavior has crossed the line from thoughtless to deliberate cruelty. I will not stand for this any longer.

Probably the worst part of this whole business is that I tend to have insomnia on the best night; at times like this, when I just want to slumber the hours away, it's absolutely impossible to go to sleep.