I agree that he doesn't sound anything like ready to reconcile. I guess the most I can do at this point is not to initiate D and to tell him that D isn't what I want. That may or may not give him some food for thought.
Then it is all on him. If he wants to initiate D, he can. But he will do so in the knowledge that it isn't what I want. I guess that is all I want to achieve at this point.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
